DIVINE Magazine"Be Encouraged. Be Grateful. Be Inspired.": February 2013

It is finally here, the day set aside for couples to express their LOVE for one another. Yes, an expression of love can be given on any day and is not only reserved for Valentine's Day. But, today is the day when the long stemmed roses are bought, heart shaped boxes of candy are flying off store shelves and restaurants are preparing for the candle light dinners for couples who have, "reserved a table to two." DIVINE sat down to talk to a couple whose mission is to help other married couples "Get Their Groove Back," or for those who are are already "Grooving" give suggestions to help them maintain a strong and healthy relationship as they proclaim,
Yes, "I am Still Dating My Spouse."

"Still Dating My Spouse"

Marriage Enthusiasts

Pamela & Stephon King

By Staff Blogger Tiffoni Mitchell

DIVINE:: How was the concept of Still Dating My Spouse conceived?

Pamela King: Still Dating My Spouse was a Ning group and once it was dissolved we decided that the idea and concept is much needed and must continue it on.

DIVINE:: When you first started what was the initial response?

Pamela King: The response was GREAT! Everyone loved the name and the concept. The idea of dating your spouse sparks so much interest and helps everyone think about the dates before marriage. Just the memories of how much fun they had dating makes the couples long for it again & decide to start back dating.

DIVINE:: What is the main goal and purpose of SDMS?

Pamela King:: The main goal of SDMS is to strengthen marriages by implementing regular date nights. “To date your spouse is to know your spouse.”

DIVINE:: How are couples responding to SDMS?

Twitter:
@datingmyspouse I like this page! Awesome to see such support for married couples. - Dr. Buckhalter

@datingmyspouse We got married on 10/13/12! Thank you much for putting your encouraging words and advice into the atmosphere! Love you both!

Instagram:

therealmalone Hey LS I like how u guys stay encouraged #strongprayingcouple

wardy247 What an amazing yet simple point...thanks for all of your inspiring posts

Facebook:

Parties by Christee: Love your post and your text!! Keep up the great work Mrs. King! :)

KG Style Designs: This page is so beautiful and inspiring!

DIVINE: What are some of the most common concerns in a relationship, particularly marriage does SDMS address?

Pamela King:: Effective Communication is that beast that keeps taunting couples and causing much hardship. We help couples develop the proper communication strategies for their relationship. By helping them to understand that they must meet each other where they are now, in regards to communicating, and build up to what works best for their relationship, couples are more apt to do it and keep it going.

DIVINE:: How can couples join in with SDMS?

Pamela King:: We invite couples to join us on this journey of strengthening marriages by implementing a date night weekly, monthly, or quarterly. They can follow us on Twitter, Facebook, and YouTube. We love meeting new couples & helping them get to the point where date nights are natural and not forced. We also send out weekly (once a week) marriage tips via text. To sign up: Text SDMS to 33733 to subscribe.

DIVINE:: Today is Valentine's Day, what advice can you give to help couples make this a memorable one?

Pamela King:: Do what is natural for you guys. Do something that will bring you closer together & that you will enjoy doing. Don’t fall into the trap of what the WORLD tells you your Valentine Day should be like, instead do what you know is best for your relationship. One good suggestion: throughout the day send your spouse “loving” texts about your marriage and why they are your Valentine. Include things that only the two of you know about. Make them fun, sexy and true!

DIVINE:: In closing, share with our readers what is on your heart as it relates to marriage and relationships.

Pamela King:: The devil is busy and he is out to destroy every marriage don’t fall for his tricks. Marriage is hard but the reward is priceless. Your marriage is your marriage so act accordingly and watch how God will work within your marriage.